Who said “Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so.”?

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Lord Chesterfield. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceLetters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774), 19 November 1745

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“Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so.”
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APA

Chesterfield, L. (n.d.). Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/13611-be-wiser-than-other-people-if-you-can/

MLA

Chesterfield, Lord. “Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/13611-be-wiser-than-other-people-if-you-can/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

Chicago

Chesterfield, Lord. “Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/13611-be-wiser-than-other-people-if-you-can/.