Who said “Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.”?

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Not Margaret Thatcher. It's commonly credited to them, but the evidence shows it isn't theirs.

What the research foundNot by Margaret Thatcher. Earliest known source: Jesse L. Carr, Teamsters leader, Alaska (1975).

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“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.”
— Margaret Thatcher
MisattributedNot by Margaret Thatcher. Earliest known source: Jesse L. Carr, Teamsters leader, Alaska (1975). · evidencePower

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“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.” [Quotation attributed to Margaret Thatcher]. (n.d.). Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/34021-being-powerful-is-like-being-a-lady-if/

MLA

“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.” Attributed to Margaret Thatcher. Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/34021-being-powerful-is-like-being-a-lady-if/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

Chicago

“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.” Attributed to Margaret Thatcher. Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/34021-being-powerful-is-like-being-a-lady-if/.

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