Who said “If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel the pains of separation (and this may…”?

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C. S. Lewis. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceA Grief Observed (1961)

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“If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel the pains of separation (and this may be one of their purgatorial sufferings), then for both lovers, and for all pairs of lovers without exception, bereavement is a universal and integral part of our experience of love.”
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APA

Lewis, C. S. (n.d.). If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel the pains of separation (and this may be one of their purgatorial sufferings), then for both lovers, and for all pairs of lovers without exception, bereavement is a universal and integral part of our experience of love. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/5085-if-as-i-cant-help-suspecting-the-dead/

MLA

Lewis, C. S. “If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel the pains of separation (and this may be one of their purgatorial sufferings), then for both lovers, and for all pairs of lovers without exception, bereavement is a universal and integral part of our experience of love.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/5085-if-as-i-cant-help-suspecting-the-dead/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

Chicago

Lewis, C. S. “If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel the pains of separation (and this may be one of their purgatorial sufferings), then for both lovers, and for all pairs of lovers without exception, bereavement is a universal and integral part of our experience of love.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/5085-if-as-i-cant-help-suspecting-the-dead/.